From Silvawing's blog
"I know that if you talk and tell secrets bad things will happen"
I was talking with D about this this week. Not going in to the background. But what struck me is that she doesn't see the mess as my fault - and i do. I know if I had listened and thought and remembered not to tell, remembered that even after all this time it was the wrong thing to do, to tell, things would have been different. I wouldn't be facing D's disappearance. D and C and others would not be mad at me. I should have remembered not to tell. It doesn't matter how long ago. "Shhh... don't tell."
So I will try to remember - but the thing is, what do you do when the secret is out of the box? You can't get it back.